Showing posts with label patience. Show all posts
Showing posts with label patience. Show all posts

Tuesday, March 25, 2014

GARDENER OF MY SOUL

Many of you reading this article have already begun early spring garden preparations. I have learned many things through the years in a garden. In addition to the hard work required for a garden to produce, there are many spiritual lessons and connections to be made while one is getting their hands in the dirt. I want to briefly point out some. No doubt, you could contribute additional perspectives from your own experience.
            First, the conditions have to be right in order for the seeds and bulbs to grow. For example, if the soil is too damp and too cold, tomato plants will just sit there and their leaves will turn yellow. They need the warm days, and the humid nights to take off and grow. On one occasion Jesus likened the human heart and its receptivity to his divine lessons to conditions of the soil. There was the good soil. There was the rocky soil—giving opportunity for quick growth, but the plants wilted because there was no depth. There was the hardened path that had been walked on—the seed lying on the surface just right for the birds to pick up. And there was the thorny, weedy soil where the plants couldn’t grow because they were choked out. So, the preparation of my heart to hear life-changing messages needs constant attention against shallowness, hard heartedness and carelessness.
            Second, seeds need to be planted. The colors of flowers and vegetables that will eventually come later in the spring, summer and fall are pictured on the package. Whoever puts the picture on the package is sending out the message of hope for a harvest: “If you plant these seeds, this is what it will look like.” In my life, seeds will be planted in two ways: my seed-thoughts that affect my life and behavior; and golden-thoughts planted in the hearts and minds of young people. The thoughts and deeds we implant in the hearts of young people are offered with an incredible belief of hope in the future!
            Third, have you noticed the difference between a fertilized plant and a non-fertilized plant? Try an experiment this spring and fertilize one and leave the other one next to it untreated. You will be amazed at the difference! Fertilizing and caring for plants means watering, cultivating, and feeding each plant what it needs. When fertilizer is properly applied with right timing, amazing growth occurs. In our own lives we need God’s fertilizer for our very souls. I am referring here to His Holy Spirit and His Holy Word, Scripture, that is given for the nourishing of the soul. Without this proper nourishment and timing, there is no way I can mature and grow in my character, and live a soul-ful life full of meaning and purpose that honors God and serves others.
            Fourth, and this one follows on the heels of fertilizing, there is the ongoing task of weeding. For some reason weeds just grow naturally! Some are so pernicious and plaguing and maddening that the only way to deal with them is to pull them completely up from the deep root systems. Have noticed that bad habits in life are that way? Negative, self-destructive and relationship-denying habits are hard to break. I remember one time letting a particular weed grow to an immeasurable height and depth just because I wanted to see how it would look full grown. Needless to say, I had to use a pick axe and a shovel to dig it up and remove the root system. Long gone was the day for that plant when I could just reach down and quickly pluck it up. If I let bad habits, even wrong moral decisions, go too long, long-gone will be the day when I can just reach down in my heart and easily get rid of them. When I see a weed in my heart sprouting, I have to deal with it now! Otherwise it becomes a monstrous, negative growth that is almost impossible to root out.
             And finally, patience for the final harvest is necessary. I cannot go to my pepper plants in March and expect full grown jalepenos. I cannot go to my cabbage plants in April and expect full grown heads of cabbage. I cannot go to my tomato plants in May and expect big, round, red tomatoes ready to be sliced for my BLT sandwich. Patience for the harvest is a non-negotiable. I have to wait for the flowers to bud, blossom, and produce fruit. It is hard to wait. That is counter-cultural right now. We want everything instantly: communication, our lunch sandwiches and our travel destination. But a garden teaches patience. We have to fight the deer off of tender shoots, we have keep the bugs away, we have to wait for the spring and summer rains, we have to endure the dry heat, we cannot force fruit and blossoms and ripe vegetables before their time. I have to be very patient with myself and with others when I look for the fruits of maturity and growth. A harvest of character takes the patience of a lifetime. And, we are all at different stages of our growth. As the Christian classic writer Hannah Whitall Smith reminds us, we cannot go to the apple tree in the spring and expect a ripe apple. The farmer’s seasonal patience becomes a model for patience in character maturation.
            Several years ago, I came across a prayer by Richard Foster in his book entitled Prayers from the Heart. This is where I first heard of the metaphor of “Gardner of My Soul.” I want to close this month’s article with the following prayer with that same title. Listen now to Foster’s insightful prayer taken from garden metaphors:
“Spirit of the Living God, be the Gardener of my soul. For so long I have been waiting, silent and still — experiencing a winter of the soul. But now, in the strong name of Jesus Christ, I dare to ask:

Clear away the dead growth of the past,
Break up the hard clods of custom and routine,
Stir in the rich compost of vision and challenge,
Bury deep in my soul the implanted Word,
Cultivate and water and tend my heart,
Until new life buds and opens and flowers.

Amen.”


Tuesday, July 31, 2007

Preparation: Can't Get There Without it

Preparation: Can’t Get There Without it

It seems that each day and each week God chooses to impress upon me various aspects of the Christian journey that are easy for me to forget or lay aside. The vital concept and reality He has chosen now is “preparation.”
Preparation is the necessary step of a process leading to fulfillment and a goal achieved or an end result desired. It is easy for us to think that preparation time is wasted time. Let me share with you some recent experiences.
First, I am grateful beyond expression for the academic preparation demanded of nurses and doctors before they are licensed to practice. Myrtle, my mother in law, is still in the CCU at Methodist Medical Center as I write this. The machines, the beeping noises, the blinking numbers, the IV lines and ventilator all testify to specific preparation by the medical staff that was taken seriously.
Secondly, I am in the process of building a gazebo in my back yard, getting ready for a pond tour where the public gets to come and see your yard, landscaping and pond/water feature. With fascination and awe I have watched God and my wife, Nancy, cooperate to create a beautiful back yard that needs to be on the front of Southern Living magazine! The preparation of plants for this years growth and the attendant landscaping has taken three years. The preparation of the lumber for my gazebo is a careful, painstaking task, but necessary if I want the structure to be presentable and not an embarrassment.
Last of all, I have seen the personal preparation that God has utilized in the lives of so many people so they can be effective in ministering to others out of the context of their own hurts, disappointments, rejections, pains, etc. Only a cancer patient knows the reality of another cancer patient. Only a diabetic knows the reality of another diabetic. God’s desire is that we remain open to His working in our lives in those areas where we have been humbled. Out of our own thorns in the flesh, we like Paul, have learned that God’s grace is sufficient.
So, preparation comes in the form of training, patience, painstaking sacrifice, and personal thorns. Without all of this we could not be prepared to enter ultimately into God’s presence forever. Why do we always resist what is most needful?
My dear travelers, think of each day as preparation for being in God’s presence forever. May God bless you and make his face to shine upon you.
In Christian love, Curtis